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Magical Tango Moments

June 17, 2014

Have you ever had a dance in which time seems to stop and its just you and your partner and the music.

Your mind is no longer thinking about the steps or your technique or the crowded floor. It feels like your body is moving automatically and in perfect unison with your partner and with the music. Its beautiful and you don’t want it to end.  And when the tanda does finally end you look at your partner with a big smile and perhaps even hug in recognition of that magical moment that was shared.

Tango magic does not happen very often and sometimes it does not even happen on a full night of dancing. But when it does, it truly is magical. You are left seeking to attain this moment again and again.

What is it that makes these moments happen?

Murat & Michelle look like they are experience tango magic every time they dance.
Murat & Michelle look like they experience tango magic every time they dance.

For me, this magic most often happens with a new partner or someone I have not danced with in quite some time. There is something about dancing with a new partner that I become hyper-aware and sensitive to my partner’s subtle moments. Another factor is the level of our abilities. The magic most often happens when my partner and I are on equal level of experience and skills. If I’m much better than my partner, I have to work so much harder to make the dance happen. If I think my partner is much better than I, (a professional for instance) I become nervous and once again in my head. Sometimes the floor craft makes a difference. If the floor is especially crowded and chaotic both my partner and I become stiff or limit our movements out of fear of getting hit or of hitting someone.

Okay, so we’ve set up the scene. You have a new partner, your dance abilities are matched and everyone is nicely following the line of dance with enough space to move. Let’s say the music is a beautiful set of Di Sarli or D’Arienzo or maybe even Pugliese. You have warmed up and are feeling good. Its when all the variables are right, that the magic happens, right? Maybe. Or maybe it’s something else.

What is this Tango magic?

I have a theory that the “magic” comes from our subconscious mind.

subconscious-mindDid you know that our subconscious is responsible for 90 percent of our thoughts and actions? Our conscious mind, the one we think we use most of the time, actually only uses 10 percent of our brain. We use our conscious mind for learning, thinking and analyzing and it’s responsible for our logic and reasoning. Our subconscious, on the other hand, is responsible for our creativity, instinct and even our spiritual connection. Even more, its able to digest a lot more information all at once, far more that our conscious brain is capable of handling. Our conscious mind can do only a few things at a time, but the subconscious mind can do trillions of functions at the same time.

When you learn Tango you are using your conscious mind. But once you have repeated the steps and movements over and over again you no longer have to think about it. It becomes relegated to the subconscious mind.

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Similar to the concept of “muscle memory”, once you have trained your body to move in a certain way, your body automatically knows how to respond. Much like driving a car, once you know how you don’t have to “think” about it, you just do it.

But our subconscious is a lot more than just muscle memory. I like to think that its somehow harnessing a deeper more spiritual element and its also deeply connected to the music. Those of you who have experienced it, you know what I mean.

So how do we access our subconscious so that we can experience tango magic more often?

This is when we get into the topic of brain frequency. Our awake brain operates at 13 to 30 cycles per second, but when we are relaxed, in meditation or on on the verge of falling asleep our brain operates at a frequency between 8 and 12 cycles per second; the Alpha level. This is the level between sleep and wakefulness, and the point where we begin to enter our subconscious. (Don’t get this confused with the unconscious where you are actually asleep).

If we dance tango aware of our breath and with our bodies relaxed we can more easily enter this Alpha level.  When we are in the Alpha state of mind, we have focused attention and a different sense of time. Sound like the Tango magic doesn’t it?

Try this:  At the first embrace, clear your mind, relax your body and closely pay attention to the music and your partner. Trust that your conscious hard work in now in your subconscious, and your body knows what to do. (Do keep in mind that you need to have consciously practiced Tango over and over again before trying to harness the tango stored in your subconscious.)

And if you want to become a better dancer, practice dancing perfectly in your head. Your subconscious mind does not know the difference between imagination and reality. Both create ingrained neurological pathways in the brain and when activated the nerves stimulate blood flow and what ever is needed to achieve the goal.  These pathways are identical whether produced by physical movement or by imagined movement.

By connecting with this deeper level of consciousness we can quite possibly attain the elusive Tango magic much more often.

 

Filed Under: Learning Tango, Musings Tagged With: Alpha mind, Argentine Tango, Bay Area Tango, Subconscious, Tango dance, tango magic

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🧨 New year, new beginnings! One happened yester 🧨 New year, new beginnings! One happened yesterday at @thetangodome – first Women's Gathering hosted by @ayano.yoneda.tango, including folks who identify as women.

Part clothing & shoe swap, and part cultivating a safe space to be vulnerable, be generous, be supportive, and be real with each other.

Looking forward to more of this and building a community that keeps involving what tango events can be beyond the dance! 🙌 
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As the year-end approaches, many SF local tango ev As the year-end approaches, many SF local tango events have had or will have their last event of 2022 to wrap things up. This year's last Milonga Rubia al Sur happened this past Sunday, Dec 18 with DJ @ayano.yoneda.tango and special performance with visiting artist, @martinalmironartist, and milonga host, Lisette @passion4tango. 

With the holidays coming up and Argentina winning the world cup, dancing tango all night long around Lisette's very own flower arrangements was just the appropriate celebration people needed.

Hosted by Lisette Perelle, Milonga Rubia is held every 1st & 3rd Sunday of the month, with current location at Just Dance Ballroom (2500 Embarcadero) in Oakland and a different DJ for each event.

✨ Fun fact - how Milonga Rubia got its name... ✨

Lisette's Argentine friends have always been calling her 'Rubia' because of her blonde hair. One day about 6 years ago, when she was discussing naming this new milonga with @julian_tangosf, he said, “Why not just call it Milonga Rubia?" That's how Milonga Rubia got its name! The event once was in a venue in Emeryville/Richmond. Once Lisette changed venues to a more southern location (Just Dance Ballroom in Oakland), the event's name was changed to 'Milonga Rubia al Sur' accordingly.
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Last Saturday, Saturday Dec 17, @abrazoqueertango Last Saturday, Saturday Dec 17, @abrazoqueertango hosted their Holiday Bash with performances by @mirabtango and Miranda at @tangodome, a cool art gallery and dance space at 951 62nd St in Oakland.

🏳️‍🌈 Abrazo Queer Tangois a volunteer-run organization, and after expenses, all funds are used to pay for their events and offer discounts to students and folks short on cash. To help the org break even in 2022 and fund its 2023 programs, last Saturday's event was positioned as a fundraiser with a sliding scale $20-$40 for folks to choose how they'd like to show their support, offering a sweet night of performance, community and great music in a magical location. 

Missed the event yet still would like to support Queer Tango? Donations always totally work! Please write *donation* in the comment via your favorite method:
Venmo ➡️ abrazo-tango (Karen Curtis)
Paypal ➡️ abrazoqueertango@gmail.com
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💫 #motivationmonday is not over yet so here is 💫 #motivationmonday is not over yet so here is a quick recap of the International Day of Tango at @greatnorthernsf last night! 💫 Milonga hosted by @julian_tangosf with DJ @loco_chung. 
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This Friday night in the heart of San Francisco, t This Friday night in the heart of San Francisco, tango dancers and the public who are curious art lovers had a unique experience with live music performed by local tango musicians and the strategic mix of TANGO • VALS • MILONGA • ALTERNATIVE music by DJ @jonas.aqui of @jxtango at @drawingroomsf_annex, an art • gallery • studio in the Mission district – a free event by the collaboration of @chetangosf, @drawingroomsf and @artistmigration. 

Artists featured:
Sumi Lee (piano) @sfsumi
J Ramada (bass)
Basma Edrees (violin) @basmaedreesviolin
Verónica Freidkes (vocal) @veroverofreidkes

Check out our stories and story highlights for snippets of the performances and tango dancing around art pieces!
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❣️ about Che! Tango SF❣️

All events created by Ramada Salieri and Elaine Chiu are dedicated to providing an inclusive and friendly dancing and learning environment in San Francisco and the Bay Area regardless of gender, age, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, religion, or any other characteristic or trait.

ONGOING EVENTS
Che! Milonga: Every 1st and 2nd Saturday of the month 
Che! Música + Milonga: Once every quarter on a 2nd Saturday
Milonga Uno: 3rd Saturday of every other month
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❣️ about The Drawing Room SF ❣️

MISSION
The Drawing Room connects community through art to help improve the overall human condition by making art accessible and part of the daily fabric of our lives. 
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ANTI CAPITALIST ART
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Those who came out to @tangolabruja last night had Those who came out to @tangolabruja last night had an epic evening of dancing and live music with three highly skillful tango musicians’ improvised music – Trio Tangazo, a dynamite tango trio made up of Sascha Jacobsen (bass), Seth Asarnow (piano), and Adrian Jost (bandoneon). 

~~Fun fact~~
Sascha, Seth and Adrian all performed at La Bruja previously - either with other tango ensembles or in duo - but it was the first time all three of them taking the stage together!

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🥧 Tomorrow is Thanksgiving so @milongamalevaje 🥧 Tomorrow is Thanksgiving so @milongamalevaje is closed for that matter, but here is something different & fun from last Thursday 😉 with DJ @jonas.aqui, courtesy of hosts @tanguera_e, Ramada Salieri and Adolfo Caszarry.

Have a wonderful holiday everyone!
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✨ FRIDAY NIGHT TANGO ✨ It’s been awhile sin ✨ FRIDAY NIGHT TANGO ✨

It’s been awhile since Milonga La Genesis (hosted by @julian_tangosf) has live tango music. Last night LEO TANGASSO QUARTET was in the house, featuring @leogassomusic from Montevideo, Uruguay on bandoneon,  @smurfetteshum on piano, Stella Bonilla on violin,  @digsmahler on double bass.

(🎥 @tangonnection, edited by @sflovestango)
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👏 The all-female tango ensemble, 𝙇𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙡𝙢𝙖𝙨, wrapped up their 2022 concert tour at @alameda_elks1015, playing for a full house of guests at the @housetango Community Milonga.

𝙇𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙡𝙢𝙖𝙨 is a collaboration between powerhouse female tango musicians @sfsumi (piano), @heynisolera (bandoneon), and @teagbby (violin). Their concert on Sunday featured guest bassist @fabricanfabricant and vocalist @teresatam.sing.

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The mission of 𝙇𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙡𝙢𝙖𝙨 is to present contemporary Argentine tango through virtuosic artistic performance and educational events.  Sumi, Heyni, and Teagan originally bonded in Buenos Aires, drawn by a mutual love of tango music, as well as by a realization of the inequality of professional opportunity for women in the tango genre. They studied under the same maestros and performed with prestigious tango orchestras in Buenos Aires.  They now frequently perform around the world, including in their respective adopted cities of San Francisco (Sumi), Washington, DC (Heyni), and NYC (Teagan). All of the musicians also produce their own music. 
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🎉 Saturday, October 22 marked the grand re-open 🎉 Saturday, October 22 marked the grand re-opening of Vecher Tango at the Russian Center of SF!

After a long pause of two and a half year, the magnificent grand ballroom was filled with tango energy again. What made the occasion extra special was the incredible performances by another visiting master couple @javierchikk & @moiracastellano. To top it off, @virginiaychristian "Los Totis" joined Javier & Moira on the floor for a mixed maestros dance!

Shout-out to our dearest friend Davood Yazdani, Julia Schiptsova of Tango Element, and all the local organizers for making this weekend feel like a mini tango festival in San Francisco!
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✨It's a star-struck tango week in SF!!✨ @vir ✨It's a star-struck tango week in SF!!✨ 

@virginiaychristian "Los Totis" have been teaching in San Francisco (brought to you by our very own Davood Yazdani who's in collaboration with Julia Schiptsova of Tango Element!) And we were mesmerized by their fantastic performances last night at the special edition of @milongamalevaje at @verdiclubsf ! 🤩👏
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💫 Exactly a year later, 𝙇𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙡𝙢𝙖𝙨, an all-female tango musician collaboration, has returned to the SF Bay Area!! 

Last night they took the audience on a magical journey to Buenos Aires with a concert-milonga at @tangolabruja in Berkeley. Check out our stories to see more snippets of their performance!

𝙇𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙡𝙢𝙖𝙨 is a collaboration between powerhouse female tango musicians @sfsumi (piano), @heynisolera (bandoneon), and @teagbby (violin). The concert last night featured guest singer @veroverofreidkes.

The mission of 𝙇𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙡𝙢𝙖𝙨 is to present contemporary Argentine tango through virtuosic artistic performance and educational events. Sumi Lee, Heyni Solera, and Teagan Faran originally bonded in Buenos Aires, drawn by a mutual love of tango music, as well as by a realization of the inequality of professional opportunity for women in the tango genre. They studied under the same maestros and performed with prestigious tango orchestras in Buenos Aires.  They now frequently perform around the world, including in their respective adopted cities of San Francisco (Sumi), Washington, DC (Heyni), and NYC (Teagan). All of the musicians also produce their own music. 

Catch them for the rest of their tour!
🔸10/20 (Thur) 10pm, World Folk Jam concert w/ ten other world music groups, Oakland
🔸10/21 (Fri) 7pm, Sebastopol Center for the Arts
🔸10/22 (Sat) 7:30pm, Sunset Music and Arts, San Francisco
🔸10/23 (Sun) 3:30pm, houseTango Community Milonga @ Alameda Elks Lodge, Alameda
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